“Did someone say that there would be an end,
An end, Oh, an end to love and mourning?
Such voices speak when sleep and waking blend,
The cold, bleak voices of the early morning
When all the birds are dumb in dark November—
Remember and forget, forget, remember….
Now the dead move through all of us still glowing,
Mother and child, lover and lover mated,
Are wound and bound together and enflowing.
What has been plaited cannot be unplaited—
Only the strands grow richer with each loss
And memory makes kings and queens of us….”
―May Sarton
Whose memory makes you richer in spite of the loss?




