There is boldness and beauty in standing out in a crowd, but when you are very small and vulnerable, or simply feel small and vulnerable, there’s much to be said for the ability to blend in and not be noticed.
What do you turn to when you feel like you need to escape notice?
To escape notice, I do not retreat from being in a group but I usually choose not to add to the conversation. This surprises some because I almost always enter in. However, there are times when I want to listen, not add any opinion and therefore I do my best to remain silent. If asked to contribute, I may decline or add a short note.