Illness and Chronic Pain

When we become ill, we discover what it means to be a human “being” as opposed to a human “doing.” There can be extraordinary guilt when we realize all the things we assume about ourselves when we are healthy are no longer true. Whether it is a temporary set-back (when recovery is likely) or a chronic condition (which can only be managed, not cured) illness challenges us to see ourselves in a new light and to accept our humanness.

When we are sick or injured we suffer. Symptoms may range from pain, to disorientation to an inability to move or care for oneself, to loss of sleep and appetite. Our bodies betray us. Drugs, therapy, and care from medical professionals and loved ones can ease our suffering. But it is up to us to find a way to accept that pain and suffering are a part of being fully human. We cannot wish it away but we can learn ways to work with our suffering instead of fighting against it. Each of us will find our own path to healing. Healing comes from the same root as wholeness. Accepting that we whole even when we are ill or injured is a first step toward healing.

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