Remember the Giver

Water PumpShe came every morning to draw water
Like an old bat staggering up the field:
The pump’s whooping cough, the bucket’s clatter
And slow diminuendo as it filled,
Announced her. I recall
Her gray apron, the pocked white enamel
Of the brimming bucket, and the treble
Creak of her voice like the pump’s handle.
Nights when a full moon lifted past her gable
It fell back through her window and would lie
Into the water set out on the table.
Where I have dipped to drink again, to be
Faithful to the admonishment on her cup,
Remember the Giver fading off the lip.
―Seamus Heaney

Who are the givers you remember with gratitude this Thanksgiving?

In the Doghouse

In the DoghouseWhen we’re in trouble we’re said to be “in the doghouse,” banished from our own place of comfort. Dogs, it turns out, are really good at reconciliation, at asking forgiveness and moving back into loving connection. It’s a wonder they stay in doghouses at all.

When you’ve been in the doghouse, what has helped you back into good graces?